Allies Program

QUALITIES OF AN ALLY

An Ally:
  • Has worked to develop an understanding of sexual identity (including their own sexual identity) and the needs of LGBT individuals.

  • Chooses to align with the LGBT community and responds to its needs.

  • Believes that it is in her/his self-interest to be an ally.

  • Is quick to take pride in personal success in responding to heterosexism and overcoming fears.

  • Expects support from other Allies.

  • Expects to make some mistakes but does not use it as an excuse for non-action.

  • Knows that he/she is responsible for humanizing or empowering their role in society, particularly as their role relates to responding to homophobia.

  • Promotes a sense of community with LGBT individuals and teaches others about the importance of outreach.

  • Recognizes that the LGBT community is a diverse group. Each community within the larger community has unique needs and goals.

  • Has a good sense of humor.

 

Adapted from Western Michigan University's "Safe on Campus" Program by Gregory M. Weight, Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Community Office, University of Delaware, March 2000