UpDate - Vol. 14, No. 7, Page 8
October 13, 1994
Memory lane; Moments recalled as preschool marks anniversary

     The Laboratory Preschool in the College of Human Resources will
celebrate its 60th anniversary with a variety of events during
Homecoming weekend on the campus.
     From 1-4 p.m., Sunday, Oct. 23, on the preschool grounds outside
of Alison Hall on Academy Street, family entertainment will include
storytelling, the Bubble Man, puppet shows, music and songs. Alumni
and their families are especially encouraged to attend and bring back
photos from pre-school days.
     The Laboratory Preschool began as a children's play group in the
1930s. Early newspaper and departmental reports from the late 1930s
and early 1940s recount the school's beginning.
     According to one account:

        Ten small Newark children have been enjoying play school
     day on Saturdays during the spring in the practice house of
     the home economics department at the Women's College of the
     University of Delaware. One of the children has called the
     play school, "The Little College."
        This play school was started because the class in child
     development discovered that it knew almost nothing about
     small children. Books tell one what children are like, how
     they grow, what they eat, what they wear, but as one student
     said, "How do we know? And, besides, no two children are
     alike!"
        So to get first-hand experience with small children, to
     observe how the principles learned in class are put into
     practice, to see the differences as well as the similarities
     in children, the play school was organized under the
     direction of Miss Henrietta Fleck, instructor....
        A mid-morning lunch of fruit juice, tomato juice or milk
     was served. Each child sat at a table of the correct height
     and poured his own cup of milk or juice. Children who
     disliked what was being served, contentedly drank it because
     the other children were enjoying theirs and because it was
     so much fun to pour one's own....
        The 16 college girls who are observing the children are
     assigned duties such as serving the beverage, helping with
     toilet activities and preventing unfair play.

     That first class of 3-year-olds included five boys and five girls
and was so successful that by 1935 the laboratory was being offered
for two periods a week each semester. The University Archives contains
a request made in 1935 for a fully equipped nursery school.
     An article written by a Hester Smith in 1938 details a day in the
life of the preschool:

        "Good morning, Peter! Good morning, Diane!" It is a sunny
     Monday morning at 10 o'clock and play school in the Home
     Economics Practice House on the Women's College campus is
     about to begin....
        The procedure upon entering play school is for each child
     to take off his outer garments and hang them on his own
     hook. Miss Baker, the school nurse, then examines them for
     sore throats or any ailments which might be infectious to
     the other children. They then go to a little table and pour
     themselves fruit juice.
        If the day is warm and the weather permissible, they go
     into the yard where there is various outdoor equipment. If
     the weather is inclement, they go upstairs and play with
     indoor toys. Before going home at 12 o'clock, they either
     listen to the Victrola or are told stories. Then down the
     stairs they go, don their wraps, and run to meet their
     parents-ready for lunch and an afternoon nap.

     An article in The University News from April of 1940 records a
new location and some changes to the school in five years:

        Time rings the changes! Can this be Room 10, Science
     Hall? Have the students' chairs and the professor's table
     shrunk into these bits of furniture? Perhaps some wizard has
     changed the tripod holding maps of the world into the small
     easel in the corner and the pens and tests and notebooks of
     generations of students into these bright toys and colorful
     books and pictures?...
        Yes, for this is the laboratory of HE 322, Child
     Development- headquarters of Play School for the present
     semester.
        What to do if 3-year-old Alice cries when her mother
     leaves her and if Johnny takes toys away from other children
     are merely two of the problems in pre-school education that
     are studied by students in the course. The answers are put
     to a real test in the school of 12 children between the ages
     of 2 and 4 years.
        In addition, observations are made in regard to
     personality traits, ability to coordinate, vocabulary,
     sentence structure, span of interest, memory, development of
     imagination, habits and degree of independence. A special
     study is also made of play equipment suitable for this age
     group.
        The children who attend Play School also share in the
     benefits. They have an opportunity to play with children of
     their own age and thereby learn much that cannot be learned
     from adults; they acquire independence; they have access to
     play equipment which is suitable to their age and size and
     is developmental in nature; they progress physically and
     they form good habits.
        The work in child development is just a small part of a
     large whole by which the School of Home Economics strives to
     fit all of its majors for two professions- homemaking and
     another which is dependent upon the field of specialization
     in college.

     A report from the School of Home Economics reports that "In 1940
a special federal grant and the gift of an interested friend made
possible one of Miss (Amy) Rextrew's long-sought goals, the addition
of a specialist in child development and family life and the
subsequent establishment of a nursery school."
     Accounts of life in nursery school in the 1950s can be gleaned
from these letters written by alumni to Alice Eyman, director of what
is now called the Laboratory Preschool.
     Michael Munroe, now of Lakesville, Mass., recently wrote:

        I went to the University of Delaware preschool on Academy
     Street for three complete terms, in 1955, 1956 and 1957....
     Newark was a great place to grow up, and the University
     campus was the best part of it. I don't believe that any
     years were happier than those I had in nursery school. I
     liked the red building with the ladder to the top. I liked
     painting the equipment with brushes and water in warm
     weather...
        I liked the metal slide when it was new. That must have
     been in 1957, my last year. (When we got the metal slide we
     kept a pet rabbit in a cage beneath it.) Inside, I remember
     the BIG wooden blocks the best; I hope they still have them.
     I wish that the preschools my boys went to had that kind. We
     used to make the outline of a boat that several of us could
     get inside of.
        I liked juice and cookies and having our backs rubbed on
     the mats when it was nap time; that was just about the best.
     It was the last time a teacher ever encouraged me to sleep
     in class. Of course the young, enthusiastic, friendly co-eds
     were the best. I am sure I was in love with most of them
     each year.
        ...There was always something to do as a child on the
     University of Delaware campus, and all the fun began with
     the University of Delaware Laboratory Preschool.

     Another point of view was expressed by a University alumna who
worked in the preschool and also wrote to Eyman. Pat Childs, Delaware
'76 '78M, now of Tucson, wrote:

        In reading the "Alumni Brief" the other month in the
     University of Delaware Messenger, I came across the blurb
     about the lab school turning 60 and felt both old and young...
     I was happy to hear that you are still the director and so
     many good memories came back to my experiences both in your
     class and student teaching. What I would learn in both I'd
     carry with me every day of my life, both when I was able to
     teach and now that I've had to retire, but volunteer as
     often as possible.
        I'll never forget that constant voice saying, "What's
     another way you can do that?" Sometimes I hadn't a clue, but
     it forced me to seek alternatives both with the children and
     with my own personal challenges of dealing with severe MS....
        The other most poignant reminder of my experiences with
     the lab school was the freedom to be myself and create my
     own teaching style.... You respected individual differences in
     not only the kids but the student teachers, and for that
     I'll be forever grateful.

     For more information on the University's Lab School or its
anniversary celebration, call 831-8555.
                                                          -Beth Thomas